Seconded, even if it’s just to make us more aware of how some of this can be avoided - esp the doors and washing the car.Agree, no need to repeat anything that was said in a private conversation.
However, if you don't mind, why don't you tell us what your latest "theory" is given your latest first-hand experience with your car and any additional "insight" you've picked from "friends" that have also shared their first-hand experience with you. Inquiring minds would love to know...
