I have a gated f430, which is pretty much what you are describing, same weight, 500hp, hydraulic steering, double wishbone all around. Funny thing is, ever since I got my emira, I rarely drive it anymore. There is something addicting about the emira that I enjoy it even more than the Ferrari. F430 does have a screaming 8500rpm redline, but in reality there are not many situations where u can hit that on the road.
I wish I could find the words to describe what that "something addicting about the Emira" thing is.
When I read your post, it really resonated with me. I had an Elise, and now an Emira, and I own/owned much faster and more expensive sports cars at the same time with both. In both cases, I felt like the Lotuses were a lot more fun to drive.







