I don’t have my car yet, but there will be occasions (per the manual, “occasionally”) later in the break in period where I will consider paragraph 4 to be permission to hit redline from time to time. It seems to me that hitting 5500 occasionally at your current mileage is right on track.
Disclaimer: I’m not a mechanic. I’ve broken in a few airplane piston engines back in the day, and the procedure there is very, very different: the engine is to be run continuously at steady, high power settings for long periods of this time. The thing is, though: an aircraft piston engine gets broken in at settings most consistent with how it will be used operationally. So in that way, the idea is the same for an automobile engine: during break-in, the engine should be used as it will be after the break in period, but work your way up there gradually, and consider the 1000 miles to be a mini version of the engine’s operational life. Realistically, over 100,000 miles the amount of time the engine gets thrashed will be quite small. So scale that down for the first 1000 miles, work into things gradually, vary speeds and work the gearbox, and don’t venture over 4000 RPM too soon, too often, with too much depth on the accelerator pedal, or too early in the first 1000

. Also: always have a bit of mechanical sympathy. Some people are just hard on equipment

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