My two pence: start with a 3rd cat delete pipe from GRP or Milltek, and see what your think. IMO, the best money you can spend (well, that and a short-shift kit).
That will get you a properly epic sound. Next step after that is a Milltek valve controller, if you want it to be loud all the time (not just above 3500 RPM).
Titanium backboxes and such if you want to chase weight saving (and slightly brassier exhaust note). If you are properly insane / antisocial, full header replacement replacing primary cats with single cat where 3rd cat goes, relocating lambda sensors, but be ready for check engine lights and/or tuning to make that work.