I ordered my set from Aerie in July. I got an confirmation of the order and then chased them up for rest of the details, to be fair they have been fairly responsive to my emails. I also got a tracking number from Aerie after enquiring about shipping. Mine were shipped the beginning of September and they sat in the shipping company warehouse for 4 weeks, then once on the boat this was delayed by a typhoon for several weeks more. But the boat is now on the way and arrives early November. I'm not sure which port it arrives in or how long from then until I get my wheels.
At least for my wheels, 2 months of the delay have been due to shipping, perhaps yours is the same.
I just emailed "info at aerieperformance dot com" to get my shipping details, this may work for you too.