I don't know why they told you to disconnect positive terminal first?
The car has a negative grounded to the chassis so you disconnect that so you can't short out the disconnected positive by accident by having it touch somewhere in the car accidentally.
The same is true for any household appliance that has a metal grounded case.
Edit: for computers and your USB, the voltages and amps are much smaller and although they are often negative grounded the PCB is usually insulated so it doesn't matter. On a USB plug the data pins (which are pulled high/positive) are disconnected first before the power and ground. This is so data transfers stop first before it could get "noise" from the disconnecting power.
Edit 2: I did some digging. It appears that on modern cars - especially Porsches - many modules stay live when the negative battery terminal is disconnected (capacitors and internal batteries). But with the negative terminal removed they are no longer grounded so in theory a charge has nowhere to ground to. This is called back-feeding. I'm no expert on this but I would expect a well designed car module to deal with this and cope but as everything is built to a cost these days I guess there's always a risk of a car IC killing itself. FWIW the safe is thing to do is to leave the car turned off for 15 minutes to allow the car to "sleep" and all modules to shut down before disconnecting the battery.