Your Emira looks great. The photos are really helpful and give me a good visual. Based on your photos, I will probably go 55. 45 might be a tad too dark for me, especially since the privacy glass is letting in less light on mine compared to yours, which I think may have an impact on the visual...
I am interested in a subtle light tint on the front windows. Looking for something that even at night doesn’t look blacked out. Personal preference, but I am not a fan of dark tint. My local shop recommended Xpel 45 or 55 percent. My Emira has the privacy glass on the rear and quarter windows...